It's a gorgeous day outside. Our first day of almost 70-degrees and that is a huge celebration. Spring has sprung here in Minnesota. The birds are singing, the sun is out, and I have shaved my legs! There is no going back now. Sadly, I'm also wearing a dress with black tights and my favorite knee-high boots - a little warm, but that's ok. I think I'm retiring them for the season after today.
On Friday, good girlfriend David and I are having a spa day. We are going to Juut Salon where he's having a facial and I'm having a restorative manicure and pedicure. Then a nice lunch and of course, some shopping. It is time for some spring to enter my wardrobe and it's also time for a gal pal day. I can't wait.
Tonight I perform. I'm a comic and have a show in town which is a blessing. I hope it goes well and I'm closing so I'm hoping the audience is in a comedy vibe. My younger friend David (another David) will be there and lately he's making me wonder about the relationships us "older" women have with younger men. I don't like the"cougar" label and it does not apply to me. First of all, I would never label myself in that way as I think it infers something out of the ordinary and there is something almost predatory about it. However, I've had a couple of younger men in my life lately and it makes me wonder what the attraction is for the man and what they get out of it. Is it ego? Is it genuine affection? In my friend David's case, it is genuine affection and we have a really fun and easy chemistry. We also have a great time together and it is an intimate connection, but not a sexual connection. I can't deny that the thought intrigues me but I am ok with letting it be what it is, which is a really lovely friendship with a man that I enjoy and adore. And who knows? I am a fabulous, sensual, funny, kind, stylish and creative plus size woman and any man would be lucky to have me.
Lots to ponder these days and more to come. Thanks for reading!
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